Lifestyle, there are two, the first one is like grass alive.Although you live, are growing every year, but you are, after all, a grass, even absorb the sun and rain, or grow up.People can step on your body, because you will not feel the pain of suffering; it will not be stepped on because you come pity you, because people did not even see you.So, every one of us should be like a tree growing.This is also another way of life of people.Even if we are nothing, but as long as you are the seeds of the tree, even if they are stepped on the soil the middle man, you are still able to absorb nutrients in the soil, grow up yourself.Maybe two or three years you grow up, but ten years, eight years, twenty years later, you will be able to grow into towering trees.When you grow into towering trees later, far away, people can see you; approached you, you give people a piece of green, a shade, you can help others.Even if people leave you, a look back, you are still on the horizon a beautiful landscape.Tree, alive, beautiful scenery, is still dead pillars of.Dead are alive with this standard is the standard of our life and growth. When a man living someone else, it is very troublesome.Because the standards of others and your own is not the same, you do not adhere to the pursuit of things, your dignity and self-esteem is not guaranteed, because you are always in precarious.For us, what is the best way to maintain their dignity is it?It is to have a dream.When you have a dream, you can begin to pursue a.For example, you want to be chairman and president of New Oriental, you can not do?As long as you have the right mindset, way of doing things, as well as broad-minded, certainly can do. Those who want to do one thing at once into a dry man, even if he did become this thing, he did not base, which, as at the beach house built, they will definitely collapse.Only slowly, step by step, to get things dry into every step gave himself to lay a solid foundation, each step gave a good account of themselves, people again next higher step to go before they can really get things done successfully. When you decide to do a lifetime later, you have to firmly stay here, we should not change.You can be like a river, the more the more broad stream, but do not want to go into another river, or become a mountain.With such a goal in the future, your life will not be shaken, not because there is some chance, scurrying around, so that you can make things. Bite the bullet is an important capability for our future lives, celebrities will encounter a lot of things that you would not be tolerated, but they had to endure.Because they do not bear can not succeed, do not bite the bullet, there is no time and space into the future.If you want to go in the future, become more powerful, you have to do to give myself enough time and space to prepare.When you want to have a great aim and struggle, you have to rule out everything in your life trivial interference, humiliation. No matter what age we are in, we can not air because of a moment but to do something.Let your gas, but too many things in this world, and only when you angry over this world in order to expand the most brilliant side in front of you. Each river has its own different life curve.Yangtze and Yellow curve, is absolutely not the same.But every river has the same dream, that is, toward the sea.So no matter how tortuous the Yellow River, bypassing a number of obstacles still will not stop the rushing footsteps; Yangtze River Shui Bend of the Yellow River, although not as much, but she broke through the cliffs.They used a different way, but eventually flow to the sea.When we encounter difficulties, either rush or go around, as long as we could in the past on the line.Our lives can also flows past to dream, like the Yangtze River, Yellow River flows as of the end of their dreams, into the wide ocean, so that their lives become glorious, make their career become open.But life is not always as yourself wish, down the river, it needs water spirit.Sometimes life will be sand, although forward together along with the water flow, but due to defects in personality, timid step backward in the face of difficulties, it will be like as sediment slowly settling down, once the precipitation, probably would not and then to move forward and work hard, you will never see the sun.You precipitation down, the top layers of the sediment will you continue to press down, and let you do not see the light.So, no matter what your present life is kind, there must be water spirit.Even if it is polluted, but also to wash themselves, like water, continue to accumulate their strength, continue to break barriers.When did you find the time to time, the thickness of their accumulated; when the time comes, you will be able to gallop into the sea, the achievements of his life. Ride out the storm is a state of mind, you want to cross over, it must be able to cross over. Work with grievances, do not necessarily work.So, we should do what needs to be done successfully three points.The first point, as far as possible to their long-term goals and short-term goals combined.Must first distinguish what things we want to do things for life, which is something all of a sudden finish, we can not do things.Slow urgent to do, the more things you worry, the more careful you do, the more serious, the more able to do a good job.Fast and in a hurry to get things done will be done to pieces.The second important point is to decide forever to do, there must be planned on time.In addition, the success is also important to restrain himself.At any time, in the face of temptations and anything else that may have the temptation, if you think you can not stop, you do not chase that thing.Because if you chase that thing can not stop, last fall is that you must. Do remember, time is squeezed out. Great and obscure the difference is that: an ordinary person living a trivial everyday life, when he piled up the trivial, is a bunch of trivial life; the so-called great man, is a pile of trivial things, by a great goals, accumulated after day, become a great cause. With good living, use a good attitude to take their lives and the lives of others. There are two words I am more appreciative: Life is a process; the cause is a result. Each of us live in every day, every day if you say happy, once all the combinations are up every day, life is unhappy.But if every day you happy, you will happy happy life.Once I go in the Yellow River, filling a bottle of water with a water bottle.Yellow River water turbidity particularly well known.Then I put the bottle on the side of the road, about an hour later, I was surprised to find that three-quarters of the water has become very clear, and a quarter of the sediment settle down.If you say we put bottles of water in the water portion of the metaphor of our happiness and joy, and the precipitation of sediment likened our pain, then you will understand: when you shake it, your life will be filled with muddy, that is, full of pain and trouble.But when you calm down, although did not reduce the weight of sediment, but it has precipitated in your mind, it never is mix up, so three-quarters of your life, it must be happiness and joy. Human life is very flat road, by a person you absolutely go finish, you only together with others, to work together with the same goal, to get things done.A person’s strength is limited, but a group of people’s power is infinite.When the five fingers sticking out, it is only five fingers, but when you hold up five fingers, it is a fist.In the future, you need to unite with others together to form we can do things successfully.